Meeting changes our lives

By Tomomi Hirose

I believe that meeting new people affect on our life and ways of thinking, that is, every chance that we face means changing ourselves. I have been thinking about the meeting is a fatality rather than a coincidence. I think most people try not to show up everything in their mind at first, and they gradually get to know each other what they like or interested in, so it is difficult to know his/her essential personality only by meeting several times.

I will introduce the story about my memorable meeting. I met the girl, one of my classmates in the primary school; she was so aggressive that we had been arguing the whole matter out during the class, because we had completely different ideas every time. Even though I tried not to quarrel with her, we mostly got to become emotional after all. I always felt very frustrated when she yielded me.

However, she always tried to help me out when I felt depressed or sad, so I think we were sisters rather than friends. What is more, I have noticed that her aggressive was just the observe side of her consideration. I think it is common that not every people is good at communicating. Since we grew up, our ideas have confirmed clearly, and we can recognize the situation easily, so we haven’t argued at all. But we still tease each other the time we spent time together.

In conclusion, we are likely to affect on ourselves by meeting new people and exchanging our opinions. It is obvious that sometimes you feel difficulties to understand and accept people who are different from you, but I believe that meeting changes our surroundings and minds. Therefore, I will try not to hesitate to meet people to broaden my horizon. In my long-term goal, I want to brush up my communication skills for my business and suggest my opinion clearly.